How to Break Up With Your Long-Distance Boyfriend or Girlfriend

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Do not waste your free text messages, time and faithfulness on someone who just sees you as one of his long distance games. In your case I am going to recommend that you do a NC rule for 30 days.

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Long distance relationships are hard. Getting an ex back who you had a long distance relationship is even harder. Today, I am going to tackle this very complex subject and give you a set of actionable steps you can take to drastically improve your chances of getting your relationship back. Now, I do want to give you a word of warning that this page is probably going to end up being the second longest in the history of this site. A lot of people have contacted me directly begging for a page like this so I took a lot of time to research and brainstorm a plan for getting an ex back in this specific circumstance. Before I really get started I want to mention that while this guide is probably one of the most in-depth ones ever created about long distance relationships it pails in comparison to the training I put together for you below. In other words, if you want even more personalized and in-depth information I recommend checking this out, What Are Long Distance Relationships? What a stupid question right? Long Distance Relationships- A specific type of relationship where the couple is separated by a considerable amount of distance. That is simply not true. In my mind, a true long distance relationship is one where you are separated by states, countries or even oceans. A considerable amount of distance to me has to be a minimum of 500 miles. Now, lets talk a little about the different kinds of long distance relationships that currently exist. The Marriage LDR This is always a tough one to deal with. In this long distance relationship the couple in question is married. Perhaps at one time they even lived together. However, a certain set of circumstances have caused one of them to relocate a considerable amount of distance away. The Move Away LDR This is another one of those stories I hear way too often when it comes to long distance relationships. Here is how this one works. Basically, a couple is dating and doing fine. However, after time one of the couple members are presented with an opportunity that causes them to move away for a considerable distance or in some cases they are forced to. If you and your ex are in a situation like this then this page can work for you. How this type of long distance relationship works is pretty simple. A couple is dating and due to a certain set of circumstances one of them has to relocate very similarly to the marriage LDR above. Of course, there is one BIG difference. Instead of relocating indefinitely the person that relocated is only going to be gone for a few months. However, you might also want to check out too. The Internet To Person LDR This is an interesting type of relationship. Initially, you met your now ex boyfriend online and that led to you meeting in person. The thing is though, when you met online you were separated by a considerable amount of distance and even today you are separated by a considerable amount of distance. If this sounds like your situation then this page can pretty much help you out a lot! The Strictly Internet LDR This is the ONE type of long distance relationship that this page can not help you on. In this type of relationship the two of you have never met on person, you have only ever met online. I mean, come on, you have never even met your so called significant other in person. What It Takes To Have A Successful Long Distance Relationship You failed.. Well, I suppose I should never say never but I am generally not a fan of them for one specific reason. If I am dating someone I want to be able to see them IN PERSON. In fact, some people can thrive on them. One of my best friends dated his girlfriend long distance for two years and they are still together today. So, it is possible to have a happy ending. Anyways, back to the point. If you are here it is most likely because you and your ex had a long distance relationship but you are now broken up. Whatever the reasons may be for the breakup the two of you are not together anymore. Look, no one is blaming you. Nevertheless, you are here because you want your ex back and you are willing to do whatever it takes. I thought it might be a good idea to figure out what makes a successful long distance relationship so you know what you need to do the second time around assuming you are able to get your boyfriend back. For more in-depth information on getting a long distance ex boyfriend back please visit. Doing Things Together Over The Phone One of my best memories in high school is talking on the phone with girls. I remember staying up so late at night and literally talking until a girl would fall asleep on the phone with me. Every successful long distance relationship has this type of element to it. A tireless ability to talk on the phone for hours. Of course, couples in long distance relationships take things a step further by actually doing things together on the phone. Communicating On A Daily Basis, NO MATTER WHAT! Another quality that successful LDR couples have is that they talk every single day. Now, there is a difference between stalking and communicating. There has to be some trust involved or else your whole relationship will fall apart. Technological Face Time We live in a world of electronics and smart phones. I mean, for god sakes there is an entire section of this website dedicated solely to texting. For a couple separated by distance it is imperative that you take advantage of such electronic inventions. We have already established that successful couples are always communicating with each other via a phone. Ah, but there is a problem with a phone. While you can hear the person talking on it, it is impossible to see their face. You can communicate with someone face to face over the phone. Actually, the first time I heard about Skype was from a buddy of mine who was dating a girl that had left for college across the country. I remember him telling me that they skyped every single day and it had helped a lot to maintain the closeness that both of them were so vigorously craving. ACTUAL Face Time While things like Skype and FaceTime are fantastic tools for maintaining a technological closeness with your significant other nothing can beat actually seeing them in person. No relationship can survive if the two people never see each other. So, that leaves you in a really bad spot when you first embark on a long distance relationship. I mean, what are you supposed to do? My friend who I have mentioned a couple of times already on this page already is one of the few people I know who has made a long distance relationship work. Let me give you his statistics. He has been dating his girlfriend for about five years two of which were long distance. When I asked him how he did it, how he could bear being away from his girlfriend that long he muttered two simple words. I have no statistics to back up the claim I am about to make but I think women can go without sex longer than men can. I am not going to lie to you, most long distance relationships I have dealt with fall apart because they require an extreme amount of patience and dedication. I wanted to put this section on this page for one simple reason, I want YOU to know if you are cut out for a long distance relationship. At least you have learned something about yourself. What I am about to say is really important so I want to make sure that you are listening because I am about to give you the key to knowing if a LDR with your ex boyfriend could possibly work if you get back together. Take a look at the two lists I created above. Essentially I gave you the qualities that you need to have in order to be willing to have a LDR. In case I missed something I think that a relationship involves two people. I want you to think really hard and figure out if you think HE has what it takes to make a LDR work. The Headwind You Have To Face In A LDR While you are figuring out that little nugget of knowledge I gave you in the section above lets talk about some of the things you have working against you in a long distance relationship. You see, in order to get your ex boyfriend back if there is a considerable amount of distance separating you right now it is important to discuss all of the things that you have to overcome. Just a word of warning, this section may be a little depressing. For now though, lets talk negatives. They live about 30 minutes from one another but spend time every single day together. They text, call and do all the things that are supposed to happen in a normal relationship A long distance relationship probably goes like this: George and Jeanie love each other. They are separated by two states. They do their best to call each other every day but their schedules are so busy that they sometimes forget to. Make no mistake about it, being able to see someone you care about in person is a distinct advantage that regular relationships have over long distance ones. No kissing… No holding hands… NO SEX… When I date someone I expect to do all of the above. No doubt about it this is some serious headwind that you are going to have to figure out a way to overcome. I like the nervous feeling I get before I take a girl out for the first time. I like it all and I am not alone in this. While some guys will say they hate dating I think most of us enjoy them a lot more than we let on. When you are in a long distance relationship there are no more dates. Sure, maybe once a month one of you comes to see the other person. However, I am talking about the every week dates that happen when you are dating someone. Headwind 5- Missing Out On Birthdays Or Other Special Occasions Tell me if this story sounds familiar. Billy and Sally are in a long distance relationship. For three straight months they have been an unbearable distance away from each other. Oh, but I am not only talking about birthdays here. These are all very important bonding moments in a relationships life and you could be missing out on them. Headwind 6- The Commute Lets fast forward for a minute and pretend that you and your ex boyfriend got back together. You implemented the steps on this page and are reunited ;. Well, in order to keep your relationship alive you have agreed that you will commute to see each other more in person. There is just one problem, you are having trouble agreeing on who should commute to who. If handled incorrectly this negotiation for the commuted could cause a strain in your relationship. Headwind 7- Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind I saved this one for last for a reason, because it is the number one killer of long distance relationships. Women tend to cheat for emotional reasons. Men on the other hand cheat because they get horny. I know it is a sad thing to hear but it is true. These dry spells will make that man horny and he will be more likely to cheat because of that. What To Do After A LDR Breakup So, you and your ex broke up… now what? You clearly want him back but are completely unsure on how to approach things because there is a great distance separating you. Not to mention all of the headwind I talked about above.. So, what are you supposed to do? In my experience there are really only two ways things can go now. Admittedly, it will be more effective if you and your ex were used to talking to each other every single day. Now, before I get into the nitty gritty lets talk a little about what the NC rule is. In your case I am going to recommend that you do a NC rule for 30 days. That means that you have to stay in NC for an entire month without any slip ups. If you do slip up and talk to your ex then you are going to have to start over from day 1 again. Why The NC Rule Works I received an interesting email yesterday. One of my visitors was reading through the site and found solace in a paragraph on one of the pages. The paragraph was all about the guys perspective during the NC rule. Essentially describing why the NC rule can be so effective. Since that person emailed me wanting to know more about the guys perspective during the NC rule I figured everyone would so I wanted to put this section in. She was supposed to talk to me by now. What You Do During The NC Rule Is The Most Important Thing This is where a lot of people who come to this site fail. They think if they try out a 30 day no contact rule that all of their problems are over. After the thirty days their ex will just come running back into their arms. While a part of the NC rule is for your ex a big part of it is for you. What you do during the 30 days is essential to getting your ex back. Now, people in long distance relationships have a pretty good advantage over normal relationships when it comes to this section. Usually, with a normal relationship I recommend that women evolve during the 30 days into basically the hottest version of themselves that ever existed. That means, women in normal relationships have 30 days before they potentially could see their ex in person. While a lot can happen over the month I am not entirely sold on a life changing transformation happening in that amount of time. Where you have the advantage is the fact that it could be months before you even get to see your ex. While you may look at that fact and frown I tend to take the opposite approach. The fact that it could be months before you see your ex in person just means that you have more time to prepare, more time to knock his socks off when he sees you. I recommend picking up my book, for ideas on how you can change both mentally and physically during the NC period. The Mindset You Need To Have During No Contact Sometimes in order to get the guy you have to be willing to lose the guy. Women who understand this tend to do really well when it comes to getting an ex back. If you are an avid reader of this site then you will find the next phrase I am about to say all too familiar. Men want the unattainable. Here is your main problem. I will never forget the time when I was a little boy and went with my dad to watch him negotiate for a car at a car dealership. The thing about my dad is that he is always prepared when it comes to these types of things. He did a lot of research and had what he thought was a fair price in mind. So, when the time came to haggle over the price the car salesman and my dad went back and forth. So, my dad did what you are supposed to do in these circumstances. That little tactic just won my dad the negotiation as he got his price. In this section I am going to give a pretty in-depth game plan that you should follow when talking to an ex who you were in a long distance relationship with. You are about to find out that the rules are just a little bit different when it comes to contacting an ex in a long distance relationship. What Is Different About Contacting An LDR Ex Vs. Lets get to the good stuff. Inevitably you will always want more examples which is why I created. The first contact you have with your ex should be done via a text message like I recommend throughout my site. Simple, make it so intriguing that he will have no choice but to respond to it. You should be planning your text message throughout the NC period. I would like to recommend that you run it through what I like to call the first contact text. Remember, your first contact text message has to be so intriguing that he will have no choice BUT to respond. They have to fill your ex up with a positive memory about you. If I was you I would try something like this: For more text examples like this please visit. Lets say you sent this exact text and get a response from him, what then? The Random Meme I love internet memes. In fact, I have an app on my iPhone that is actually JUST for memes. Whenever I get bored I start looking through the memes and just have a good laugh. What is a meme you ask? Hmm… I am not sure I can really define them in words. It is better if I just show you. The Buffy Meme The Photoshop Meme The Superman Meme As you can see, memes are meant to be light and funny. They are the type of things that will go viral in the blink of an eye. If you search the internet there are literally hundreds of thousands of memes out there. What I want you to do is send your ex a text with one of these memes you pick what you think if funny around the internet. You are testing to see if he will respond. If he does respond then you are going to engage him in a very light conversation. After you engage him for a while I then want you to end the conversation. It is important that YOU end it because it puts you in a position of power and will hopefully leave him wanting more. The Remember The Good Times Text Message If you are familiar with my monster 10k word post on how to get your ex boyfriend back then you should be familiar with this text message. With this text message you are really trying to get your ex boyfriend to remember some of the good memories you had together. So, I want you to brainstorm and list all the special memories you had together. These have to be memories that you know for a fact that your ex enjoyed. The memories you pick have to be strictly PG rated. I would try something like: Again, if you want more in-depth information on texting I suggest you pick up. Notice how I chose a bonding experience in the above example. The closer you felt together during an experience the better it is. Also, another little nugget of knowledge I can give you is to make sure you use a lot of details. However, try to include as many details as possible. What I want you to do is engage him in a conversation. Text him for around 3-5 hours that particular day. Once those 3 hours are up I want you to just not respond. End the conversation by not responding. Remember, our mantra here is to always leave him wanting more. I have found that couples have gotten back together on jealousy alone. Of course, you do have a small problem since you were in a long distance relationship with this person. How are they supposed to see you with someone else initially making them jealous? It is called Facebook! As far as using jealousy directly with your ex via a text message the key here is to be subtle. Here is an unknown fact about this site, did you know that I actually get men contacting me? Yes, Ex Boyfriend Recovery is a site dedicated to women. However, every once in a while there is a man that will reverse engineer the process and wind up on this site because he wants his ex girlfriend back. A few months ago I had one particular man that really wanted his girlfriend back. He wound up on my site and figured that jealousy was the best way to accomplish this goal. The reason this text is amazing at making an ex boyfriend jealous is that it is so subtle that your ex has to make all kinds of assumptions. Was she on a date? Was this a guy friend? Let me rephrase that. Personally speaking, I am one compliment from the opposite sex away from having a great day. Oh, and I am one put down from the opposite sex to having a bad day. If you are going to compliment your ex boyfriend who you were in a long distance relationship with you have to be really careful. Part of the reason that I made you jump through all those texting hoops in the previous section first contact, meme, etc was to kind of butter your ex up for this type of a text message. I want you to send him a compliment. Yes, it is a risk and you could fall flat on your face but in the end fortune favors the brave so it is time to be brave. This compliment has to be different though. You have to be detailed and you have to send it at the right time. I recommend sending it when the two of you are in an emotional texting conversation. Here is an example I would use: This is kind of do or die for you. What you are looking for here is a positive response. I would end the conversation after you send this text though no matter what. Remember, always leave him wanting more. Assuming you have progressed this far you are in really good shape. Now it is time to heat things up just a little bit more. Simple, you add lots and lots of details. Take a look at the example below: Lots and lots of texts huh? Obviously, you are looking for another positive response from your long distance partner here. If he responds in a positive way you can move on to the next section. If you were in a long distance relationship then I am sure you are pretty aware of what Skype and FaceTime are. If not, they are essentially video software you can download to your smartphone or computer that will let you talk to the person face to face electronically. It is essentially a step above texting. If you have progressed to this point of the page then that means you and your ex are ready to talk in person again kind of ;. I want you to initiate a skype call where you kind of lay your cards out on the table. I want you to finally have an in-depth talk about your relationship. I just want you to discuss your relationship and any feelings that you may be having for each other still. The Call Duh Duh Duhhh.. I ONLY want you to do this IF the skype call went extremely well. This is where you are going to try to see your ex in person again. Everything up until this point was just to prepare you for this moment. No pressure though haha ;. Alright, you are going to make a phone call to your ex and see if you can set up a date where you two can see each other. Since there is long distance involved one of you is going to have to agree to come see the other one. I would actually recommend that YOU be the one that comes to him. That will require you to clear your schedule and have some extra spending cash which is why I want you to call him and let him know to see if he digs the idea or not. If he does then you are in! If not, then that means you need to reenter NC for a while and try again later. Perhaps do a better job of recreated attraction during the text message portion. A kind of condensed version of getting your ex boyfriend back if you are in a long distance relationship. I realize there will be a lot of questions since I did leave out some stuff. If you have any questions feel free to comment in the comments section below. But I just had one more question. Day before yesterday, my ex was being very supportive and he was encouraging me to achieve my goals. Then the next day,I put a pic for status on WhatsApp. The pic was with my guy friend where I was pulling his ear. I used jealousy tactics. Why is he being cold all of a sudden?? Thank you so much Chris…. We had an argument 2 days ago, and we worked through all the problems and at the end of the argument he said he wanted to break up, which came as a shock to me since we went through all this effort to resolve the problems we had. We talked about things for a while and shamefully, I did ask him not to break up with me, begged him even to reconsider and we took a couple of days to figure out what we wanted. Today we briefly messaged, he confirmed he still wanted to break up and I agreed it was the right thing to do — though there is so much love still there between us, from both sides. Honestly, I just pushed too hard for him to be on my side and that pushed him away. I see that now but the rest of our relationship has been amazing, and I do want some time but I absolutely want him back. I Just wanted to know if you think this is going to work in my situation. Is there any chance that NC will result in him feeling like breaking up was the right decision? Will NC work for me in this situation? I am so sorry you are having to go thru a breakup. I know it all feels weird and strange and new and raw. Giving each other space is a good thing. Sometimes its best to give each other more space than you think. My recommendations for no contact range from 14 to 45 days. Every situation is different. Feel free in giving your ex a heads up that you need some quiet time for yourself and will be out pocket for a spell. I recommend you take a serious look at picking up one of my eBooks that deal with the ex recovery process which you can find on my Home Page of this site! My ex is my relative,so there was a festival for which all of us had to meet. I decided not to go coz I wanted to completely follow ur guides but unfortunately my ex had come to my place for performing certain rituals n our entire family had to dance together and complete the ritual. So I had to dance and my ex had to do the same. V danced in the group. I tried to be totally casual. So I was not supposed to meet him ,but I was helpless in this situation. Chris,I also wanted to tell you dat my ex always checks my status on WhatsApp and I am able to get him to respond to my texts and also he is the one who is initiating most of the conversations. V also talked about our likes and dislikes and v shared our opinion about doing engineering. Am I going too fast or slow?? Chris i just have one more question. It really hurts me to the core. We are in an LDR because he was a seaman. I burst out because he doesnt trust me. Even though I always follow him on what he wants, like I cannot hang out with my friends beacse my friend bring along her boyfriend, as long as there is a boy in the group I cannot go and even in my work he always tend to get jelous. Before I break up I try to speak with him why he cannot appreciate my effort. And then on our 3rd day of our break up my colleague told me my ex is trying to flirt with her and right now on our 2nd week he is flirting another girl. And then i received so many messages from my colleague that my ex is giving them false information about me, like I was so flirty. I still love him though. I really miss him. But I cannot talk him after what he have done. Being in an LDR that long we have had our ups and downs. At times we have entertained other people, but we love each other, but distance took its toll. We do not have sex, because Im super conservative and am waiting till marriage. My ex moved to the states 2x but do situations beyond our control we could not settle in the same place for longer than 6 months. My ex wanted to get married but he wanted to be financially stable. I struggled to find a job after graduating because of some health issues, and once I recovered I battled depression. My ex was also struggling with issues of anger and anxiety after his dad passed unexpectedly. Long story short he gave me an ultimatum to find a job by a specific date which I did not. That same evening of the deadline, he went on to see another woman who for many years in our relationship has tried to sabotage us. Its been 3 months since we broke up from that day and he tells me he wants to see me. Has called me crying that he still loves me at times when he is with her , but proceeds to hang out with the other woman. We have not been communicating consistently and we have not seen each other in 4 months. So basically I am not sure if I should go to him so we can see each other and try to figure things out. He cannot come to me right now due to immigration rules. Also if I go and we decide to give this another go should I stay with him for the 3 months left before he can come back stateside? But I never broke up with him. I was jealous and had because of some reasons some trusting issues. I tried for a week everything to reach him and tried to make up. But he ignored all my messages on all social media sides. Well on an chatapp I blocked him. Cuz I was running after him and i needed to stop. He only watches my instastorys but I cant see his cuz I know he hide his story for me. Idk why this all happened. I have no answers and I still love him and miss him so much. Idk if he just played with me or not I am so confused. I have also a question I post a lot in my instastory to show i am doing well and so on and maybe he see it or he just skip them. If I do the NC then should I stop posting things? Or should I totally give up after I fight so much for him? I have read many of ur articles. Yesterday I updated my WhatsApp status. As it was a festival, I dressed up well and took pics and put them as my status. My ex is always checking my status and he is active on social media. But the next message was quite rude. He asked me if I had a mustach or was it a photo effect and he even told me to look natural and to stop editing pics. It really hurt me a lot. I ended nc 2months ago n from then till now, v have had 8 conversations out of which he initiated 3. I have also been the one to end the conversation first always. Now I read another article of urs wherein u spoke about aikido and how it is important to keep calm all the time and choose to have a good mood and utilizing conversational slight of hand. But How should I react to his rude message like this one? It really hurt me a lot. I also have another question. Why did he all of a sudden become so rude without me doing anything? It would really be very helpful. My situation seems a bit odd. My ex and I had a good relationship, with minimal fights although, looking back I feel like I placed some pressure on him. We were together just short of a year and during that time he left for work 3 separate times for a month each time. Each time I felt it went well, although the dynamic of the relationship changed and I seemed to be the one reaching out more. But when he returned, things would go back to a more balanced communication. I tell him I am willing to try with him as long as he is putting in effort and I will do the same. I left that conversation wishing him the best of luck. After he moved he sent me a message asking how I was which I responded to saying I was doing well. Is there any hope for me? Now that is one cool name! What on earth possessed your ex to leave you!! So you are are off to a good start with NC. He is already reaching out. Perhaps this NC period will allow your ex to realize what is really important to him. I have a bit tricky situation. We were long distance relationship over sea different nationalities. We were together for 15 months 5 months were long distance. We had different interests and my English is not perfect, but we shared many things and rarely fights when We had problem, We discussed about it soon. But a month ago, He broke up with me. He seemed to want to discuss about Politics and Economics, Business with me. I told him that If he wants to find someone, I would let him go. If We could stay same place, maybe there would be different, but We are far apart. He told me that it was first time for him that he stayed together with a girl over a year. I never contact to him after that. I replay to him after few hours or past half day, then He texts me back quickly. I never ask any questions to him like HOW are you? To be honest, I still expect to get back together, but I also understand how difficult and rare chance about it as this is not normal long distance relationship… I appreciate that if you give me any advices. I feel mess up…. In this case, it felt like a true partnership, that made both of us better for it. And it seems like things ended before they had been given a chance to run their course—due to the stresses of long distance. Any help, advice, or insight would be so appreciated. Like really, crazy in love. Like him initiating talks about marriage and babies with me in love. He can also hold a grudge!!! Anyway, the other issue is he is about to be deployed at some point within the next month not sure of exact dates. We made plans to see each other twice before he left this month before we broke up. Neither of us have social media or any other means of communication other than just speaking to each other. There is history here…. And I think that giving each other space would be a good idea. So NC seems to be a sensible approach though I realize you have limited ways to showcase your value. While you are going thru this period and into the future, you would likely benefit by being part of my Private Facebook Group. Just go to my home page on this site to learn more about that and other resources that can help you! Thank you for this post! We were also in a bit of a unique situation since I work remote, so I was able to visit him for a month at a time every other month or so. So naturally, my jealously got the best of me, I think and I suggested that we go on a break for a week. He says he will always care about me and said that this is something that needs to happen now before we hate each other. Would that be a good idea? Neither of us have contacted each other since our breakup phone call at the end of April. Also, we dated for about 3 years and went to MBA school together, which is where my met. Yes…LDR can make things more challenging…the distance and communication snafus. He seems often critical of you and not always supportive and somewhat insensitive to your needs. I do think some space would be good for both of you. Employing the No Contact Principle can help in various ways…. It gives him a chance to reflect as well on what he really wants. July is far enough away, where you will have given NC time to take hold. My best advice is you need to gain more insight and smarts on how this whole ex recovery thing works. That is why I created an ebook called, Ex Recovery Pro. Go take a look. This is very helpful. I met my boyfriend on a work trip in another country with a lot of water between us. We hit it off, talked and Skyped everyday for 3 and a half months and then saw each other again for a little over a week. Right before I left he had a death in the family. Our regular communication just stopped happening. He apologized but it really put me off. I wanted to be there for him, but it was hard when he brushed me off so much. After we met the second time and I returned home, It was a slow movement to him putting in minimal effort in communicating same amount of communication when I first got home to almost me always being the one to initiate contact about 2 weeks later. I finally said I would not be contacting him first from now on but that he could contact me whenever he wanted. I felt bad leaving him cold turkey while he was still dealing with the loss. It has been 3 days since I have heard from him and am now realizing NC needs to be in full force and needs to continue for the next 27 days the death was a close aunt who had cancer and passed away over a month ago. He is a wonderful human being. So I hope this helps! It is wise of you to shift the relationship situation from one of bickering to one where you both have some space to heal and consider what you want from each other because relationships are not sustainable if there is constant conflict. And let me know how things go Nicole! My ex and I were together for about 8 months, and most of the time we were actually together we were long distance, we met at work where we lived together for 3 months before getting together. We managed the distance well but recently with both of our work we found it hard to communicate and see eachother more and it became a bit of a stress for us both. He had previously told friends and family that I was a keeper and the one, but at the break up said his feelings had faded. I appreciate your compliment and am glad it is offering you some help. LDR can be hard. I know, I had one, but it worked out quite well for me as I have an awesome wife! If not, take a look at that as well as some of my other ebooks and services that are geared to help people optimize their chances. Feel free to drop by here anytime! Sometimes guys are really not that in touch with their feelings, so stay the course with NC and remember to focus on your own recovery. Last night I asked if we had any chance of getting back together. My advice is to have a plan and execute it. I created an ebook…. It also helps you with your own personal recovery as breakups are hard on people. And keep me in the loop! Sounds really needy so what should I do I already make 2 mistakes if I make a mistake this time I lose her for ever… I need help.. Thanks for stopping by again. I doubt if she has moved on. Its like a period of transition as she tries to get emotionally centered and figure out what it all means and what is best for her future and what she really wants. That is not always easy to figure out. So it is a somewhat natural path some people take when confronted with a breakup situation.

Our last meet up was in end of jan where we traveled to Europe. However, I am talking about the every week dates that happen when you are dating someone. Sarah hopes to travel the world someday, after she becomes a north graphic designer and illustrator. Of course, you do have a small problem since you were in a long distance relationship with this person. He had previously told friends and family that I was a keeper and the one, but at the break up said his custodes had faded. Emphasize the finality of the situation. We had different interests and my English is not perfect, but we shared many things and rarely fights when We had problem, We discussed about it soon. I don't want to feel like that bad guy. Being in an LDR that responsible we have had our ups and downs.